In recent months, I have moved to a new city, restarted my self-run business, made new friends, got engaged & became a step-mom-to-be to 3 beautiful girls. I celebrated a wonderful 35th birthday with friends & family, new & old. The last 6 months have flown by, and I am in a good place. That is not to say that it’s all been smooth sailing….but, I have become a juggler. No, not in the circus with chain saws/flaming bowling pins way, but with managing a household, 3 children, multiple jobs, a tight budget & life’s little ups & downs.
I have worked hard to strike a balance of family time, work time & Tracy time. I have to work to help pay the bills, but I also work because I love what I do. I want to spend as much quality time with the kids as possible, and we don’t get to see them every day. But, I also need time for me…to workout, get my hair done, read a book (still working on that one!). But, I am fortunate to have a loving, supportive partner who wants me to succeed & wants to help run this ship 🙂
People tell me (all the time) that they just don’t have the time in their busy schedules for healthy, home-cooked meals…or to exercise…or to clean the house…or to go watch their child play soccer. You have to prioritize, organize, delegate & plan!!!
I write A LOT of lists. I use a write-on/wipe-off calendar & the one on my phone to schedule work & appointments. I plan for 3 days of meals when I shop (with a grocery list & coupons). I run my errands all at once (I plan which places I need to stop at that are in the same vicinity/shopping center). I plan ahead for which days I will workout. I can’t blog every day; it just doesn’t fit into my schedule (so, hopefully I make the posts I do write worth it).
My point is this: there are enough hours in the day, if you use them wisely. And some days nothing gets done- I’m human. And some days I forget something I was supposed to do, again human 🙂 I know the stresses of making enough money to feed your kids healthy meals, finding the time to help with homework, getting 1 hour of exercise in amidst a crazy work schedule, paying the electric bill on time, etc…..
This post is to give ideas/helpful tips, NOT to say I do this juggling act better than anyone else. People get things done by relying on friends, family & partners. We have to accept we are not super human and just ask for the help we need…I could not accomplish all I do in a day without my support system 🙂  Seriously, it DOES take a village.